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The Power of the Unseen by Marcel Borgi

Today I want to do something a little different, I want to make a recommendation. I don’t know if you do a lot of reading but The Power of the Unseen by Marcel Borgi is worth reading…

The reason I make the recommendation is because the book made a profound difference in my life. Marcel Borgi asks the tough questions we all have:

  • What really makes us happy?
  • Why are we happy?
  • What are the steps that we take to become happy?
  • Could anyone be happy all the time?
  • Is it possible to feel constantly peaceful?
  • Is it possible not to get angry – ever?
  • Is it possible not to feel fearful or not to worry?
  • Is it possible to live without nagging problems?
  • Is it possible to have all my needs met and to live respectfully of others?
  • Is it possible to control other people’s behaviors and actions toward me

In a moment of deep self-contemplation, Marcel looked at his life and decided to make a  profound dedication to inner peace and happiness. This book is Marcel’s journey from being very unhappy, from being very poor and destitute, from having to start all over (again) with his family and actually making the change.

What I enjoyed was Marcel’s insights to really understanding what it took for him to be truly happy. He does such a good job defining it. His step-by-step explanation showing how he found happiness and how you might be able to find it too. As a Mars Venus Coach, I see this same struggle all over the world. We all deserve to be happy, the problem is – what is it and how do you find it?

I don’t normally do this but I want to personally make this recommendation. You have
to read this book: The Power of the Unseen by Marcel Borgi. Go on Amazon, order it, read it, and tell me what happened. I think you’re going to be amazed.

I hope that helps and have a great day!

Why Mars Venus Coaching?

How is Mars Venus Coaching different from the other training programs? People have a hard time finding the right coaching school for their needs. With so many options out there, how does one choose the best coaching school suited for their needs to really help the people they want to coach?

Coach Certification Overview

That’s a really good question. Here’s the thing that people have to understand when they’re choosing a school. The first thing is that many of the schools teach the same curriculum. They teach you how to do questioning. They teach you how to drill down. They teach you how to really understand what the coach wants to learn so that they can be an effective coach with a client. They really have to look at how to bring that client clarity. That’s the first part of coaching – bringing them clarity. Once you have that clarity you have to bring them a plan. You’re going to sit down with your client and actually map plan of how they can do that. Thirdly, it’s hard to hold someone accountable so they don’t run away.

The Problem With Other Coaching Programs

Most coaching schools teach you all this and many of them do a very good job so the certification really is not the problem. The real problem is what do you do after your certified? Once you have this license or you’re trained and you now you’re a good coach and you’re sitting at home – what do you do now? It’s similar to going to law school, accounting school or any kind of school. They teach you how to do law or accounting (or coaching in this case) very well but now what do you do? How do you get clients? How do open your business? How do you bring in clients? How do you build a coaching business for yourself so you not only get clients but you have a steady flow of them and you’re delivering good coaching?

The Mars Venus Coaching Difference

There are a lot of coaches all over the world that are fantastic and they’re sitting at home. They’re like their best known secret. Nobody else knows about them and they would make a great coach. That’s the biggest problem in coaching and honestly that’s what we do here. Not only is Mars Venus the most incredible coaching training you can get because we’re also the only ones who focus on gender intelligence (how men and women are different) but we specifically and painstakingly teach you how to get a client. Step by step. What do you do first? What do you do after that? How do you maintain (not only acquire clients) but maintain a stable of clients all the time because you’re carrying our brand. We want to make sure that if you’re carrying the Mars Venus brand that you’re successful. There’s the biggest problem and there’s the solution.

If that interests you at all … Not just being a good coach but actually getting clients and helping people. Your success is really important to us. You’re carrying our brand so we will make sure that you are successful. Call me at (702) 835-9295 or go to our website at You can also email me direct at I look forward to helping you be a success.

Rich Bernstein
President & CEO Mars Venus Coaching

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Are Expectations Causing Misunderstandings in Your Relationship?

Good morning everyone! Today I want to share with you the biggest reason I’ve found why people have misunderstandings

Whether it’s in a relationship or in business that I’m coaching, I find there’s always one common denominator… I’m sure if you think about it you know what it is it’s called. EXPECTATIONS!

Everybody has a different expectation of what you thought or what you meant or what happened is not what you thought would happen. What I want to talk to you about today is how to make sure that your expectations are either exceeded or at least fulfilled. And that includes the other way around – that you at least understand what somebody expects from you.

Communication is the foundation of our relationships so it’s important to think about this for a second. How do you find out what somebody else’s expectations are? “Asking” them might sound a little simple, but I would actually use that word.

What would you expect me to do?

If you really think about it, if you put yourself in their shoes and turn the question – what do they expect from me?

Think about that for a minute before you do anything and find out if you’re living up to somebody else’s expectations. If you are – great! If you’re not – keep in mind there’s a misunderstanding coming.

Keep that in mind and thanks!

Building Confidence & Self-Esteem

Good morning Mars Venus Coaches. Today I wanted to talk about self-confidence or self-esteem.

I’ve noticed with a lot of my client’s that their biggest issue, the one thing that underlies everything that we’re talking about, is this common thread called self-confidence or self-esteem.

How do you help somebody that has self-confidence issues or if they just don’t feel confident?

What I’ve noticed, those people that have confidence issues slouch their shoulders, their head are not up, and their chest is not out.

First, I try to get them to walk confidently right in front of me. I say stand up confidently. First put your shoulders back, chest down, your chin up, and feel confidence. The actual feeling of their body in the correct position. Get that feeling of their body before their head thinks it.

If I get them to do that and get that feeling, then I can get them to continually do it. If I can get their body doing it then their mind will start to believe it too.

Think about doing that exercise with your clients (or maybe do yourself) and see if that works.

That’s the tip of the day.

What is the Secret of Empowering Women in Leadership?

Women have the potential to break through the glass ceiling and become the leaders that they’ve always dreamed of being. One only needs to look to the world of politics, where Elizabeth Warren and Hillary Clinton continue to achieve measurable results via their respective leadership styles (as well as their drive, intelligence and determination) in order to see what is possible.

Women May Lead in Any Niche of Industry
In fact, women excel as leaders in a host of areas, from astronomy, fashions, and science to business, education, the law, the military and beyond. For instance Sally Ride became the first woman in space aboard the space shuttle Challenger in 1983. Sandra Day O’Connor became the first female Supreme Court justice in 1983 – joined by Ruth Bader Ginsburg 10 years later. Many women hold powerful positions as heads of large corporations – Meg Whitman, CEO of Hewlett-Packard.

The smartest, savviest females learn to empower themselves and to empower other women by understanding what gender intelligence is and then using it to their advantage. In addition, they take pains to utilize the perfect leadership training techniques, so as to master the art of bonding with both genders, for the purpose of career advancement (and effective team-building).

In order to help you learn the secret of empowering women in leadership, let’s explore the concept of gender intelligence, as well as the value of the unique and innovative “Mars Venus Coaching” program. This advice comes in handy for both genders. Basically, anyone who supports women in leadership will benefit from checking it out.

What is Gender Intelligence, anyway?
Gender intelligence, as it relates to leadership and career empowerment, takes into account the natural differences between both sexes. It’s all about determining characteristics for each gender and then adjusting attitudes and behaviors in order to support the specific needs and drives of females or males.

Gender intelligence is about logically assessing the differences between the sexes and then using them to build stronger relationships. By grasping the concept of gender intelligence, it’s possible to gain a much deeper understanding of those that you lead every day. By doing so, you’ll be able to connect with your team in a more profound and meaningful way.

What Mars Venus Coaching Offers
There’s only one training program for female leaders which recognizes the inherent value of gender intelligence. It’s called When you utilize this valuable educational tool today, you’ll be able to get a handle on gender intelligence and you’ll be on the pathway to becoming a more effective and empowered leader.

This training program pinpoints the differences between men and women in the realm of business, via trusted psychological research. Women who use these affordable learning modules will be able to find out how men and women think while they’re doing business, as well as what the two genders look for from their leaders.

As you can see, the Mars Venus Coaching system is in a class of its own, as it offers insight into gender intelligence. No other training program offers the same depth and the same scope.

When you choose this program, you’ll learn how to sell to men and women, via different communication techniques, and you’ll also learn how to achieve your career goals by catering to the needs of each gender on a case-by-case basis.

The system is practical, it’s founded on scientific and psychological studies, and it’s reasonably-priced. Perfect for motivated teams or individuals, Mars Venus Coaching teaches lessons which may be utilized for a lifetime.

Learn More Right Now
So, what you are waiting for? Seize the day and discover the secret of winning at human interactions. Strong relationships are the foundation of career success. Therefore, the best female leaders take care to discover the most effective ways of strengthening bonds in the workplace. To find out more, visit the official Mars Venus Coaching website today, at: You’ll be so glad that you did!